actually, looks like 449 only did one unprovoked hit on you, then you started grabbing him after you retaled. he was a n00b about it though and 'retaled' other LaFers when you grabbed him, which is why detmer told enshula to put him on farm. then you farmed him and he tripled tapped. could've probably been resolved easily if you weren't also simultaneously doing like 60+ grabs on another PDMer.