You guys are so irrationally afraid of cheaters! You're afraid if you ban them, they'll make a new name. Well, I can see them doing that. But you're also afraid just by saying who cheated that they'll make a new name? So you won't tell us? So you'll let them cheat anonymously? Even if caught? Don't worry, nobody has to know. Because we're too afraid to tell them. That's nutso!

CX LaE has a purple in his history, he still has his history public. Ebert has a purple in his history, he still has his history public. h2o has been caught cheating 10 or so times and still plays as h2o. Same for Viva. Same for JJ before he was finally driven out. Same for Seth. I'd recommend saying, X player got deleted, it was for Y reason. You can even say something flimsy like "it was for what looked more likely than not to be coordination." People can recognize distinctions and realize someone like Ebert being deleted once for coordination and then learning what was and wasn't allowed doesn't make him a cheater. That everyone in RD being purple doesn't mean they were involved in cheating. Going into serious detail isn't necessary. Just some basic information, who, what. Anyway, moving on...

You do meet people in the game. That's how I first started talking to people like Rob, oldman, crest. It was all in Express, since an active grabber logs in their Express country every few hours, there's lots of times you're both sitting in the game writing back and forth, or receiving quick responses even if not instant.