so I went back and checked the message and it wasn't really that bad so I restored the country

should have been a warning as repeatedly doing that sorta thing will result in deletions but by itself it wasn't any worse than what you see in PG-13 movies.

sorry for the annoyance!

there are plenty of messages that can and will result in immediate deletions so don't take this as carte blanche to treat ppl like crap ingame :)