If you don't have a problem with it, then you also shouldn't have a problem stopping using derogatory terms which offend the community like the word "fag." We don't need to have a discussion on the definition of homophobia, and I'll agree with you on that, but I'm also not the one who started that debate. So if you have a problem with any response to that debate I think your problem is with KoH needing all phobias to be defined by fears which they aren't. They're often general repulsion and not necessarily irrational fears. But also, I'm not the one who led off by calling anyone derogatory names and I still haven't. I'm asking nicely for it to stop. If you feel the need to defend hate speech, and defend the usage of such bigoted terms, you're really letting your true colors shine. Just back off it. No other discussion necessary.