It depends. The more performative ones are a bit different. We have Martha Graham Cracker perform at my club monthly and she is a Vegas show queen. And she's very popular. As a dude, hes a really nice ass guy, bi leaning straight, kinda has his fluff together and in very chill and confident.

It might just depend on the reason for doing it. Go-go boys and drag queens seem to be oozing with self confidence. It's kind of just the dude who chooses to dress like a woman to go to 7/11 who is probably just having major self confidence issues or feeling uncomfortable in their skin.

As with anything, no shoe fits every foot.