Ahhh man I actually like it so much better than "griefing." I know it's a far more applicable term but it sounds so stupid.

Can we stick with "suicider" or do I really have to take up "griefer" because you have a linguistic argument in favor of a term I hate? lol.

Studying linguistics and understanding my mental health are things I'm ok with talking about in this community so I'm glad we managed to find our way back after I returned despite what was said while I was gone. It only took 6 months ;)