Also req, I've had this same convo with iron and with zen. I dont think it's just you. Basically everyone thinks it is chill when people they play with are cross server suiciding me over my personal life as far as I can tell. No one except gerdler is really having any balls to stand up for me on that one and calling it bullfluff. But tbh, I think he's just in it with me so we became natural allies.