Originally
posted by
Heston:
Originally
posted by
Viceroy:
Originally
posted by
Heston:
Gay marriage is for gay people. It doesnt hurt anyone so they have the right. However imo, a gay couple married or not, should never be recognized as eligible for adopting children . This includes surrogate situations. Gays need children as much as the octomom needs more.
Why not just have CPS take kids away from single parents? After all, they can't possibly give them the support of both a mother and a father...
We are talking about gays not single parents. As king i would sterilize everyone under the rainbow flag . I have a friend who was played by a dirty low life woman who only wanted to get pregnant so her bull dike gf could play house and pretend to have a family. 4 years in court so far, fighting to see his offspring. Why even try to accommodate something that is not naturally or even artificially possible? Why is it necessary to compound the problems in the courts, cps and parents by adding the cluster fluff that is the gay community. This is only my opinion.
I'll bite the bullet and respond. Overall, I think you're looking at this the wrong way.
Let me give you some personal perspective: Have you ever seen group homes or orphanages? I have. I volunteer locally with my family, providing entertainment and some fun for these kids. It is one of the saddest and most horrifying things the world, in my opinion. These kids grow up, age out of the system and never experience the love of a parent - they never experience any kind of love at all. They long for a protector, a provider or someone to even just hold their hand when they're sad/scared. They never have their own room, no birthday or christmas presents, no family dinner. This is to the tune of 14+million.
I'd say stop looking at this as a gay man/woman/couple adopting a child, but look at it as: An adult(s) who is a caregiver, a protector, a provider and someone who will love this kid. Look at it from the child's perspective. I fully understand growing up with gay parents would be different. If I were to choose between this and being an orphan with no family or love, I'd choose to have gay parents.